Ok just for the sake of making a technical appearance up in here, allow me to take you back, way back into the archives.
It’s interesting how, despite the fact that experience should have taught people a lesson or two, some people still go out and make the same mistakes and expect different results. Mind you, I’m not referring to myself in this scenario.
Convenient Fucking Strokes Arrangements aka CFA/CSA or otherwise known as Friends with benefits (FWB) arrangements have always been a very tricky, complicated and potentially messy affair. And always, the main questions remain:
1. Are there any rules to having a successful long term strokes arrangement?
2. If so, what are they?
3. Is there any such thing as a successful convenient strokes arrangement in the first place?
To understand where these questions arise from, refer to THIS post.
And while you’re at it, just a random question. Is there any such thing as “accidental strokes?” Yaani zile za whoops…aki it slipped!! What have we just done? And now that you’ve had “accidental strokes” with someone you weren’t meant to, what happens next?
A.O.B
Big Brother Africa 2 is currently on, and I think it sucks that those of us bila DSTV have no clue as to what’s going on up in there! All I know is that the Kenyan housemate is some budaa masquerading as a 23 year old (yeah right!!) who ingiad the house loudly advertising his political affiliation with his orange outfit. And that he’ll very soon be boarding KQ 461 from Johannesburg to Nairobi. Otherwise hatuna habari. How comes this time round KTN isn’t showing the 30 minutes daily highlights? Mazee it’s not fair!!
What’s on my Playlist?
Jimmy – Boney M (album: More Gold)
August 22, 2007 at 11:24 am
Dont long term CSA can succesfully exist. Me thinks in any CFA, one party secretly has ‘wishful thinking’ hoping that one day it grows to something else…no? And thats where the convenience takes a nasty dive when the other party meets someone ’serious’ and starts assuming your diabz
….Lol at the budaa BBA, so he be backing already?
August 22, 2007 at 11:35 am
1. No. Have short term ones and only use them occasionally.
2. Refer above number 1.
3. Yes.
Accidental strokes, no.
AOB: Angalia line up ya KBC iko apo. Somewhere…
August 22, 2007 at 11:54 am
Hmmmmmm ***seriously pondering over the Qs
Nitarudi githaa ya night crawlers kunena….
August 22, 2007 at 11:55 am
HHHMMM….let me go catch up with the post!
August 22, 2007 at 12:09 pm
1. Yes
2. Have the CFA as a side dish, which means that there has to be a main dish pia. Both should be there, one suppliments the other.
3. Yes
Accidental, yes. Turn it into a CFA.
August 22, 2007 at 12:55 pm
1. Yes
2. Chapa Ilale
3. Yes,
4. Accidental strokes, yes, mostly alcohol is rightly blamed.
August 22, 2007 at 1:10 pm
shamza has put it the best long term CSA are impossible, one person is bound to want just more than strokez.
and there is no ‘accident’ strokes, I would say regrettable strokes which you forget after a few days…
siku njema
August 22, 2007 at 1:13 pm
3N I thought you’d know about accident strokes. Darkness also plays a big role hapa.
August 22, 2007 at 1:48 pm
i believe arrangements can be made..and they differ with each CFA. shamza very true…kuna vile wishful thinking occurs and drama soon follows…
hahah…ati oops…ISHNATHING!
August 22, 2007 at 3:20 pm
Hmm have to think of this one.
1,2.No am with shamza.
3. Success is relative.
3N what if the regrettable strokes are difficult to forget?
LMAO@it slipped
August 22, 2007 at 4:53 pm
Shamza hit it right. Nowhere on earth there are accidental strokes NO. BBA 2 KBC showing Satos from 6.
August 22, 2007 at 5:44 pm
at number 9——— I like Boney M. That’s all folks (was feeling left out)
August 22, 2007 at 5:53 pm
@ 3TOC .. You need to take care of number 9 … from your blog..
I had this CFA with some mama in atlanta …. one day she talked of the us and future… and that wazz it. no more random flights to A -Town ..
CFA are dangerous though.. HIV thrives in them
August 22, 2007 at 6:17 pm
Githaa ndio hii…
What were questions again?
CFA is all good but it has to be short term (me thinks) – awa akina dada like complicating manenos sana!
Accidental strokes? Kwani how HIGH will you be?
Alafu Kip & 3TOC -si you let that number 9 go! yawa..! lakini yenyewe i understand kwanini she’s humming boney M in here….LOL
August 22, 2007 at 7:20 pm
Haiya, a guy who is willing to acknowledge that he fell for his CFA partner!!! Lakini in all seriousness, not many pple (esp. us women) can sleep w/ someone for a long time and not fall (or think we are falling) for them.
August 22, 2007 at 11:33 pm
how did I end up at number 12 when it said 8 comments before I started on mine.Cheats!
August 23, 2007 at 12:55 pm
U are right on that jaluo in BBA 2!
August 23, 2007 at 1:47 pm
btw i wish i could see BBA2. BBA 1 was thara kwanza that gaetano and abby strokes manenos… and our kenyan rep alex holi i saw jeff on mnet.co.za and i did not like him at all even though i recognize his achievements…..outside BBA2 house
August 23, 2007 at 3:52 pm
jeez.am a holy joee and i know nothing about CFA..mebe Certfied Financial Analysts..tihih.mebe am too yung..